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10 Kid Date Night Ideas

We all know we love our date nights, right? The chance to get away from the kids and reconnect with our spouses over some cocktails is a great idea. What do you do when you feel disconnected from your kids? That’s when it’s time to go on a date night. Here are some ideas to get you started having fun and spending time with your favorite people, your kids.

1. A Traditional Date

The best way to show you kids how to expect to be treated when they start dating or how your son should treat his date is to take them on one. Go all out and do dinner and movie. Let your daughter get all dressed up, do her hair and have Dad take her out for some Daddy/Daughter time. Have him take her to dinner and movie, hold the door open for her, pull her chair out  the whole nine yards. How else will your daughter know to expect to be treated like a lady when she’s older unless you show her that she is one now? For moms of sons like myself, take your son out on date. Teach him to hold the door open for you and pull out your chair. Encourage him to make suggestions from the menu of what you might like. He’ll love that you want his opinion on your meal. Teach your sons to be gentlemen and why you’re doing all this teaching, start a conversation. Let them take the lead and talk about what they’re into even if you wind up talking about the kid that puked in class most of the meal.

2. Take Up A Sport5ebb1-031

When my husband was commuting a lot for work he didn’t have hours to devote to each child singularly in the house so he would take an hour each night and throw a baseball around with one of them. During that time they would talk about whatever was on their minds, even if it was just to complain about their siblings. Pick a sport, even if your kid hates anything remotely athletic and get out there and do it together, even if it’s a just a nature walk.

3. Get Arsty Fartsy

Sometimes your county Parks and Rec will have classes that you can take with your child or your town might have a place where you can make your own pottery. If all else fails, head to your local bookstore and check out the Martha Stewart Kids Craft book. There are many great ideas in there to get you started. The great thing about having craft date with your child is that not only can you spend the time talking but you have something tangible to keep as a reminder of your experience.

4. Movie Night

You know when you were dating your spouse and you used to love those nights in where you would just order take out and cuddle up on the couch and have a movie marathon? There’s no reason why you can’t do that with your kid. I have five and we all pick a spot, get pillows and blankets and have a Family Guy marathon. We love that time together because we can be silly.

5. Get Dancing

When we were young we went “clubbing”, we danced into the wee hours of the morning. Now, I’m not suggesting you take your kid out to the club but with all the dance games on the market why night have a dance marathon. If you’re not into video games you can follow my mother’s suit, she would turn on the radio while she was doing her chores and dance around the house. Turn it into a dance date by sharing your stories about the songs that mean something to you. Listen to some of the groups they like and ask them why they like them. Create a dialogue and be willing to share your stories. I can still tell you all the stories my mother told me about Motown, 20 odd years later.

6. Girls Only

For those of us blessed with only daughters, why not do a pajama party. Think of the Pink Ladies in Grease sans the wine and cigarettes. Do your nails, have a pillow fight, have your daughter do your hair. Then have your daughter pick out a few girly movies and finish off the night with popcorn and don’t forget to stay up late.

7. Just An Hour

I have five kids and most of the time I feel like I never have one on one time with any of them. The reality is I do but I do it in a different way. Sometimes I invite a child in to help me cook dinner or help clean the kitchen or even clean the house. Sharing an activity even something as mundane as washing the windows can bring you closer together. The point is to use the time to talk about something that interests them. As long as your doing that, it doesn’t matter if you’re washing floors, you’re bonding.

8. Mother/Son Time

I love video games. I’m a 12 year old boy in my heart, I say that all the time. There’s nothing more fun for me than sitting down and playing a game or two on the weekend. Shooting Nazi zombies helps me unwind. I thank God for sons everyday, because of them I can feed my video game habit. It makes my day when I hear my son trash talk with his Dad, saying the same things that he hears me say to him when we play, it’s like passing the torch. Nothing says I love you more than teaching your son the surprise attack so he can use it on his father.

9. Go Out For Drinks

Going out for a milkshake and good conversation is a simple a relatively cheap date night outing idea. If you can’t do dairy and hate giving your kids soda like I do, head over to Starbucks and have tea together. Kids love the idea of doing anything that grownups do so being able to sit in a coffee shop, like an “adult” and making small talk will make their day and make you feel closer.

10. Kids Choice

A great way to feel closer to your kid is to learn what they like to do. Next time you want to go out tell them, “we’re going out on X day, let me know what you would like to do the day before so I can make sure we can do it”. There are very few children who won’t jump at the chance to plan a day or night out. Usually you won’t have to wait for an answer either.

Just remember as you’re planning and doing your kid date nights that the point of it all is to have fun and talk. The more you talk with you kids now the more likely they will be to keep that dialogue open with you when they are older.

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6 thoughts on “10 Kid Date Night Ideas

  1. I’m 48 and I still remember going on dates with both my mom and my dad!! I love to have dates with my kids, sometimes just going to Starbucks and getting a hot chocolate can be a great way to reconnect! Thanks for a great reminder!

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  2. i really need to do this with my kids…with the hubby’s work schedule it just doesn’t seem like I get much one on one time with my kids outside of homeschooling. I really need to make an effort to ratify that. Thanks for the tips!

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